Setting a target helps us know what behavior we want a child to show. Giving clear directions communicates what we expect to the child. Children have a better chance of behaving positively when we tell them what we would like them to do. Giving specific directions prevents problems. It is easier and more effective to establish expectations before problems occur than to react to misbehavior.
Give Clear Directions
1. Get the child’s attention
2. Give a specific direction
3. Check for understanding
Qualities of Clear Directions
Clear directions are:
• Given before a problem happens as much as is possible
• Phrased positively describing what you want to see happen
• Specific and concise